"Its expected of men to cheat...its apart of our upbringing"
Wendy Williams seems to jokingly disagree with Tyrese but I understand what he is saying completely. Tyrese made a couple of good points. If you go all out for your man, cook, clean etc, that doesn't mean that he wont cheat. "That spaghetti couldn't keep him at home" That is so true! A female wants to give her all thinking that if I do this & that, if I hold him down he won't want to leave. Unfortunately thats not true. A guy will do what he wants to do & good sex, food & etc won't always keep them home, & if it doesn't keep him home, please Ladies, if you haven't done anything wrong, don't think its your fault your spaghetti didn't keep him.
Tyrese also made some good points on how men & women are viewed two different ways by society. Everyone knows that if a female had sex with 10 different people on campus she is considered a hoe but if a guy does it no one talks about, its expected & accepted. That is just life, its nothing new. Personally, I wouldn't be having sex with 10 different guys on campus, so when females get mad because they feel like guys can "get away with doing whoever whenever" I just want to tell them GET OVER IT! As a female, you shouldn't want to do whoever whenever. I think the general idea that men can have sex with as many women that they want & not be considered a hoe should calm a female down & make her not even want to have sex with 10 different guys because of that label. Too bad every female doesn't think like me though. :-/